It's that time of year, where you look back at all that has gone on, and you can see all the ways you've been blessed. You can see where you've struggled, and decide on things you want to change.
I don't make New Year Resolutions. I, generally, have time to sit and contemplate the things I want to change at Snowbird. There's something about being up there, at the end of summer, out in the beautiful mountains, where you can feel closer to Heavenly Father than you do in the crazy, busy-ness that goes on down in the valley. That being said, I'm not going to post any goals or resolutions, but I want to share some things I'm grateful for.
I have to say that the last year has been amazing in many ways! Amazing in good ways and amazing in bad ways. I feel like I've been being a downer for the last while, and I don't like that I've become that way, so I'm working on fixing that (I think I may have stated a resolution ;)).
I've been serving in the LDS Mid-Singles program in Davis County for nearly a year. For those that don't know, midsingles are singles in many various circumstances from divorced, widowed, and unmarrieds between the ages of 31-45 years old. I've probably said this before, but I would never have imagined me being a leader like this. When I started showing up for the weekly religion classes about 19 months ago, my plan was to attend the class, because I needed the spiritual uplift and get out of there. I was shy and nervous, and didn't want to be noticed. Then one day someone noticed me, and welcomed me in, and it felt right, so I stuck to it. Through this program I have met a lot of amazing people that I have grown to love! I've also learned many, many things! Some things I sort of wish I hadn't, but oh, well! Overall, I can't believe I'm the same person that walked in there not that long ago! I've been able to step out of my comfort zone, that had me sitting on the back row, by the door, with my phone in hand, so I could escape, to being in front of many, many people and feeling completely comfortable. I'm not saying that I'm always completely comfortable, but it's been amazing, because I have moments where I'm nervous and shy, but I just have to put on that "leader persona" and I can walk up there and do what needs to be done, and the nervousness and shyness dissipate. I'm grateful for that! I'm grateful for the wonderful people I've been able to associate with! I'm still in shock to think that I accompanied Emmy nominated violinist, Jenny Oaks Baker. It was thrilling! Terrifying, but thrilling!
I'm so grateful for a loving and supportive family! I don't know what I would do without my mom, my brother, sister-in-law and their kids, and the support I can feel from my dad! I'm thankful for all of my nephews and niece! I'm grateful for each of their own identities, with their personalities, talents and all that comes with them. Ford is brilliant and beautiful and so talented, and knows so much! I'm grateful for his testimony of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints! Ev is the funniest kid I know. He's really smart, and is an amazing, athletic boy! Ady is hilarious and darling and my little twin! Akston has been a comfort to me these past few months, as I get to cuddle him and rock him to sleep. I am blessed!
I'm grateful for the people I've been able to serve with in young womens. I'm amazed at the strength of the youth in the stake! There are so many that have amazing gifts, talents, and testimonies. I've loved getting to know them and see them grow up.
I'm grateful for the abilities I've been given! Heavenly Father has blessed me in so many ways, and I'm so grateful! I'm in awe, knowing that He knows me, and knows my needs, and loves me. I'm amazed that I can receive answers to prayers, and that even when I don't like those answers, and I keep wanting different answers, that I still know when my prayers are answered.
I wanted to share this video , as the new year is upon us. I hope you enjoy it and take advantage of the new beginning that we all have!
Sunday, December 30, 2012
Tuesday, December 18, 2012
Last Sunday was the 4th Annual MidSingles Christmas Music Devotional: "God Loved Us So He Sent His Son." It was amazing! I'm so grateful for all those that participated and helped and put it together. One of my friend's, that was pretty much in charge, mom said that this was the best one she'd been to, and she'd been to them all. This was my second one to participate in. The choir was amazing, really. I was nervous the whole time for how it would come off, but they were great!
It had been a huge weight on my shoulders, and on Saturday, I finally felt that weight lift, knowing that I'd done all I possibly could, and that had to be enough. The Saturday before, I let weaknesses of mine show that some had never seen, and didn't know what to do about me. Thinking about breaking down and crying in front of so many is somewhat embarrassing, but at the same time hilarious! Nothing was working, and people weren't there, and by the end of the rehearsal I was a disaster. Thank heavens for my friend, Tiffany, stepping in and taking care of organizing people to help decorate. Poor Gary and Vaughn looked at me like they'd never seen anything like that, and didn't know what to do. I had asked for people to bring trees and lights and garlands, if they had any available, and some guy came up to me afterwards and told me that that was not going to work, and asked me if I'd ever done anything like that and actually had it work. I knew people would come through, and I had done it before, and it worked! The guy apologized a few days later.
The program was amazing! There were many talented soloists, duets, ensembles, both vocalists and instrumentalists. I was thrilled to be able to accompany one of the choir songs, and not have to accompany more than that. I loved getting to sing! I was able to sing in one of the ensembles, and it was accompanied by a strings ensemble and piano. It was so cool!
I'd been spending so much time, getting the decorations made for these trees, and other things for that, plus a house I'm working on, it took a while for me to get Christmas up in our house. It's up and I love it, other than the guy cut the bottom of the tree really crooked, so we have the leaning tree of Layton in our house. When I say leaning, I'm not even kidding. I turned it so it's leaning more towards the wall now, but it's WAY slanted! Having the Christmas spirit has been a little more difficult this year than past years with the stress of activities and performances that have been happening, Mom's been way sick for almost 2 months, but last night she seemed much better, and my mood has put a damper on things. I'm trying to be better, though.
So, you know when you're in an uncomfortable situation, there are those automatic reactions to fight or fly. Well, flying is my way to cope. I have to escape. A couple months ago, I had gone to a fireside/devotional, and saw someone that I care a lot about with someone, and my reaction was, "oh my heck.... I have to get out of here." I sat there and kept telling myself I'm a grown up, I can handle things and be mature about the whole situation. Well, that talk lasted about a verse and a half of the opening song, I'm not even kidding, I was out of there! Well, it's been a couple months, and you'd think I would be fine by now. So, I was up singing in the ensemble at the devotional when this other someone walked in and went and sat next to the original someone. It took all I had to stay where I was. Holy cow! What's the deal?! The rest of the devotional went on, and I kept focused on the performers (apparently so focused that it looked like I was checking one of them out, but really I was watching the piano keys not anything else :)), and didn't escape. I was so proud of myself. Isn't that ridiculous!? Thank heavens for family that was there to distract me afterwards, and responsibilities that got me back to being able to be me. We had the fastest clean up of the Bountiful Regional Center, ever! I was thrilled so I didn't have to do it by myself yesterday.
Last night we had our annual Church side Christmas FHE. It used to be that we'd get together and eat dinner and sing carols. Now that Grandma isn't with us anymore, and Darlene lives in Mesquite during the winter, it has changed. It was fun, though!
Last week two of Collin's kids had little programs for their tumbling and dancing. Ev is an amazing little tumbler! Ady is amazing on the bar at tumbling, and then quite the little dancer. She had a mirror off stage, but right by her, that she was totally hamming it up, loving watching herself. So funny!
I'm soon to be released from serving in the stake young women, which is heart breaking to me! I've loved young womens. Two weeks ago, I left an Evening of Excellence, and walked out saying, "This is why I love young womens!" Wednesday night, Mom got a call asking if she'd be okay with me being released to serve in my ward. She said no, because of all of my other responsibilities, but here I am the new primary secretary. Hopefully, I'll be able to feel comfortable in this position being able to serve with kids soon.
It had been a huge weight on my shoulders, and on Saturday, I finally felt that weight lift, knowing that I'd done all I possibly could, and that had to be enough. The Saturday before, I let weaknesses of mine show that some had never seen, and didn't know what to do about me. Thinking about breaking down and crying in front of so many is somewhat embarrassing, but at the same time hilarious! Nothing was working, and people weren't there, and by the end of the rehearsal I was a disaster. Thank heavens for my friend, Tiffany, stepping in and taking care of organizing people to help decorate. Poor Gary and Vaughn looked at me like they'd never seen anything like that, and didn't know what to do. I had asked for people to bring trees and lights and garlands, if they had any available, and some guy came up to me afterwards and told me that that was not going to work, and asked me if I'd ever done anything like that and actually had it work. I knew people would come through, and I had done it before, and it worked! The guy apologized a few days later.
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| Here are the decorations! Now imagine the stage filled with people. It turned out really well, and people were amazing to be there and we got it done so quickly! (My camera has a short in it, so none of the other pics turned out well)
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I'd been spending so much time, getting the decorations made for these trees, and other things for that, plus a house I'm working on, it took a while for me to get Christmas up in our house. It's up and I love it, other than the guy cut the bottom of the tree really crooked, so we have the leaning tree of Layton in our house. When I say leaning, I'm not even kidding. I turned it so it's leaning more towards the wall now, but it's WAY slanted! Having the Christmas spirit has been a little more difficult this year than past years with the stress of activities and performances that have been happening, Mom's been way sick for almost 2 months, but last night she seemed much better, and my mood has put a damper on things. I'm trying to be better, though.
So, you know when you're in an uncomfortable situation, there are those automatic reactions to fight or fly. Well, flying is my way to cope. I have to escape. A couple months ago, I had gone to a fireside/devotional, and saw someone that I care a lot about with someone, and my reaction was, "oh my heck.... I have to get out of here." I sat there and kept telling myself I'm a grown up, I can handle things and be mature about the whole situation. Well, that talk lasted about a verse and a half of the opening song, I'm not even kidding, I was out of there! Well, it's been a couple months, and you'd think I would be fine by now. So, I was up singing in the ensemble at the devotional when this other someone walked in and went and sat next to the original someone. It took all I had to stay where I was. Holy cow! What's the deal?! The rest of the devotional went on, and I kept focused on the performers (apparently so focused that it looked like I was checking one of them out, but really I was watching the piano keys not anything else :)), and didn't escape. I was so proud of myself. Isn't that ridiculous!? Thank heavens for family that was there to distract me afterwards, and responsibilities that got me back to being able to be me. We had the fastest clean up of the Bountiful Regional Center, ever! I was thrilled so I didn't have to do it by myself yesterday.
Last night we had our annual Church side Christmas FHE. It used to be that we'd get together and eat dinner and sing carols. Now that Grandma isn't with us anymore, and Darlene lives in Mesquite during the winter, it has changed. It was fun, though!
Last week two of Collin's kids had little programs for their tumbling and dancing. Ev is an amazing little tumbler! Ady is amazing on the bar at tumbling, and then quite the little dancer. She had a mirror off stage, but right by her, that she was totally hamming it up, loving watching herself. So funny!
I'm soon to be released from serving in the stake young women, which is heart breaking to me! I've loved young womens. Two weeks ago, I left an Evening of Excellence, and walked out saying, "This is why I love young womens!" Wednesday night, Mom got a call asking if she'd be okay with me being released to serve in my ward. She said no, because of all of my other responsibilities, but here I am the new primary secretary. Hopefully, I'll be able to feel comfortable in this position being able to serve with kids soon.
Saturday, December 8, 2012
Remember my dating post from last February? Read here. There are men out there that totally surprise me with how unaware, mean, rude, etc. they can be. However, I'm not going to talke about that tonight. I'm going to talk about the crazy women out there!
The other night I was at Cheesecake Factory after a midsingles temple night. I happened to end up sitting in a booth with a group of men. Fun for me :) One guy had all of these abilities and experiences, and one of the other guys asked him why he wasn't married. I thought it was kind of a funny conversation, because I've only had that sort of conversation with women. So, guy A, with the experiences said he's ready to be married, but it's just not happening yet. He said that he has moments when he thinks I could totally marry this girl, but he waits 6 months, and by that time the girl stops her fake behavior and then she's not what he wants, or she lies about her beliefs/standards, even to talking about how great her ward is, just to fine out that she's not a member of the church after dating for a while. Listening to this, I just thought, OH.MY.GOSH! I can't stand women like that! These stupid women are out there ruining things for all these other great women! I'm grateful that I'm not one of those women. I'm the same person whether I'm dating someone or being in front of people or being by myself.
Then there is the girl that is the total charmer. She loves to have a following, she loves to have a following of men and women. She's a great communicator, makes you feel like you are so important. She goes out with lots of men, and sucks them right in. She then opens up to them, some, and they open up a ton! They tell her all of their past things, good or bad, and then she takes what they say, and use that information to warn other women. So not a good situation! Once again, the men are being chased away from decent women, because the men are wary about opening up, again; and don't want to be around women that that one woman may have been around.
Then there are all of the girls that are negative and put down EVERY guy they run into. Really?! I have to say that people are going to act the way they're being treated. If you treat them like they're dumb, they're going to act like it with you.
People deserve to be treated wonderfully! Men, women, everyone needs to be treated with respect! Be honest. Be careful. Be someone that someone can trust!
Watch or read this. It's a great message!
The other night I was at Cheesecake Factory after a midsingles temple night. I happened to end up sitting in a booth with a group of men. Fun for me :) One guy had all of these abilities and experiences, and one of the other guys asked him why he wasn't married. I thought it was kind of a funny conversation, because I've only had that sort of conversation with women. So, guy A, with the experiences said he's ready to be married, but it's just not happening yet. He said that he has moments when he thinks I could totally marry this girl, but he waits 6 months, and by that time the girl stops her fake behavior and then she's not what he wants, or she lies about her beliefs/standards, even to talking about how great her ward is, just to fine out that she's not a member of the church after dating for a while. Listening to this, I just thought, OH.MY.GOSH! I can't stand women like that! These stupid women are out there ruining things for all these other great women! I'm grateful that I'm not one of those women. I'm the same person whether I'm dating someone or being in front of people or being by myself.
Then there is the girl that is the total charmer. She loves to have a following, she loves to have a following of men and women. She's a great communicator, makes you feel like you are so important. She goes out with lots of men, and sucks them right in. She then opens up to them, some, and they open up a ton! They tell her all of their past things, good or bad, and then she takes what they say, and use that information to warn other women. So not a good situation! Once again, the men are being chased away from decent women, because the men are wary about opening up, again; and don't want to be around women that that one woman may have been around.
Then there are all of the girls that are negative and put down EVERY guy they run into. Really?! I have to say that people are going to act the way they're being treated. If you treat them like they're dumb, they're going to act like it with you.
People deserve to be treated wonderfully! Men, women, everyone needs to be treated with respect! Be honest. Be careful. Be someone that someone can trust!
Watch or read this. It's a great message!
Friday, November 30, 2012
Last night I had a meeting with the committee heads of the midsingles program. We were talking about our spring conference. I was talking about how I want a workshop that is based on identifying yourself. Last time, I had Matt Townsend come and speak. He talked about it doesn't matter WHAT you are, it's WHO you are. I thought it was a great message. It wasn't anything new, it was something that people needed, though. A great reminder!
My reason behind this is that I've been sad with the way some people identify themselves. One older guy at an activity introduced himself as (names will be changed, not that anyone knows him, I don't think I'd know him if I saw him, again.) "Hi, I'm Rob, I'm unemployed and live at his parents house, too," pointing towards the guy next to him. Others are like, "Hi, I'm Vanessa, I'm divorced." Yes, these are things that are a part of you, but they AREN'T you! You are a Daughter or a Son of God! That's your divine identity! Believe it! Live it!
However, all that being said, I identify myself as "Hi, I'm Pyper. I have severe trust issues." I can't wait for the day, that someone comes along that helps me overcome that! Well, I've had someone like that before, but, well... yep, I need to work on that. I know that people can't make you one way or the other, you LET yourself be affected. It's just hard! I deal well with lots of different kinds of people, and I LOVE people, but when disappointments come along, it just pushes me farther into that hole of not trusting. Then, it takes a lot to get me back to trusting that person, and being able to really trust what seems to be happening, or trusting myself that I can really discern what is happening.
I've been praying that I'll be able to discern things better, and I'm grateful for the answers to those prayers. Hopefully, I can continue to better myself in that way! Anyways, those are my thoughts for the day!
My reason behind this is that I've been sad with the way some people identify themselves. One older guy at an activity introduced himself as (names will be changed, not that anyone knows him, I don't think I'd know him if I saw him, again.) "Hi, I'm Rob, I'm unemployed and live at his parents house, too," pointing towards the guy next to him. Others are like, "Hi, I'm Vanessa, I'm divorced." Yes, these are things that are a part of you, but they AREN'T you! You are a Daughter or a Son of God! That's your divine identity! Believe it! Live it!
However, all that being said, I identify myself as "Hi, I'm Pyper. I have severe trust issues." I can't wait for the day, that someone comes along that helps me overcome that! Well, I've had someone like that before, but, well... yep, I need to work on that. I know that people can't make you one way or the other, you LET yourself be affected. It's just hard! I deal well with lots of different kinds of people, and I LOVE people, but when disappointments come along, it just pushes me farther into that hole of not trusting. Then, it takes a lot to get me back to trusting that person, and being able to really trust what seems to be happening, or trusting myself that I can really discern what is happening.
I've been praying that I'll be able to discern things better, and I'm grateful for the answers to those prayers. Hopefully, I can continue to better myself in that way! Anyways, those are my thoughts for the day!
Friday, November 16, 2012
Thursday, November 15, 2012
I have a secret... I don't like the dating game. I often wonder if it's as weird and hard for younger kids, in this day and age, as it is for mid-singles. I know that when I was in highschool and college, dating was really enjoyable... of course there were funny, weird issues, but these days issues seems to be more frequent.
Actually, most of my dating experiences have been really good, I could say GREAT, in some cases! The part I'm talking about being difficult is the in between time. The "after the desicion to stop dating" or the time where you think someone might be into you, and you know you're interested, but the other person seems to have no idea that you are. It's annoying!
You sit there and weigh all of the different options... do you really want to stop dating? If you've changed your mind, is it too late? (Usually :)) How honest about your feelings should you be? Do you take a risk?
Other things that are difficult... You see a guy that is obviously into your friend, but she's not seeming to notice. Do you tell her? Sometimes, I wish my friends would hint to the people I've been interested in, but of course there's a chance that would scare them away. You see men being led on... do you tell them? This one is tricky, because a) guys think that it's jealousy, when I'm not, I just want to save them, or b) they just think I'm gossiping, and don't realize my intentions.
There you go! I'm getting off my soapbox now!
Actually, most of my dating experiences have been really good, I could say GREAT, in some cases! The part I'm talking about being difficult is the in between time. The "after the desicion to stop dating" or the time where you think someone might be into you, and you know you're interested, but the other person seems to have no idea that you are. It's annoying!
You sit there and weigh all of the different options... do you really want to stop dating? If you've changed your mind, is it too late? (Usually :)) How honest about your feelings should you be? Do you take a risk?
Other things that are difficult... You see a guy that is obviously into your friend, but she's not seeming to notice. Do you tell her? Sometimes, I wish my friends would hint to the people I've been interested in, but of course there's a chance that would scare them away. You see men being led on... do you tell them? This one is tricky, because a) guys think that it's jealousy, when I'm not, I just want to save them, or b) they just think I'm gossiping, and don't realize my intentions.
There you go! I'm getting off my soapbox now!
Sunday, November 4, 2012
It's November! October is over! With that being said, I can say that I'm trying really hard to be better, have a better attitude, and to serve more.
I received a priesthood blessing a week and a half ago, and am feeling better. I'm so grateful for the blessings that come through prayer, and the priesthood. I'm thankful for the righteous priesthood holders in my life that can give me blessings when I'm in need.
Interested in what priesthood blessings are? Watch this example.
I am very grateful for the many opportunities that I've been given, and the people that I've met. To think of the changes, opportunities, and things I've learned over the last year and a half, I'm amazed!
TMJ stinks! There are two things that cause it to flair. One of them is if I eat something I shouldn't, like toffee (learned that since Halloween) or chew gum. The second is stress. I can't believe how dumb it is! It's amazing for me to see how people affect me, how I LET people affect me. From someone not treating me the way they usually do or getting hit by a ton of strange comments on event pages or timing of responses to texts, etc... My face hurts! I sit here, holding my face, needing my neck rubbed, telling myself that I'm so dumb for letting myself get all tight like that. So, I know what I need to work on, I just need to know tricks for getting myself out of the stress... haha!
It's almost election day. I'm glad it's going to be here, and be done (hopefully), because I'm so sick to death of all of the commercials and all of the signs all over the place. I'm scared for the outcome of the election. I see people's posts on Facebook, and I get nervous! I've seen the events of fasting and prayer in behalf of the election. Events like that, or reading the Book of Mormon in said amount of time, I don't rsvp to, because I think that those things are very personal. However, seeing the negative comments on such events, makes me sad. People say that Heavenly Father wouldn't take part in politics, and that praying for such is wrong. I disagree whole heartedly! Heavenly Father will answer a prayer to help me find my keys, and that is such a miniscule thing in whole realm of existence, what makes anyone think he won't answer prayers in behalf of a nation. Reading the Bible or the Book of Mormon, you can see the Lord's hand in ALL civilizations. He didn't just send us here, to be on our own, although a lot of people think that, he sent us here to learn and grow and overcome trials and temptations. He sent us with help, and that's for all of us individually and as a whole.
Okay, I'm off my soap box now! Hope everyone is doing well!
Interested in what priesthood blessings are? Watch this example.
I am very grateful for the many opportunities that I've been given, and the people that I've met. To think of the changes, opportunities, and things I've learned over the last year and a half, I'm amazed!
TMJ stinks! There are two things that cause it to flair. One of them is if I eat something I shouldn't, like toffee (learned that since Halloween) or chew gum. The second is stress. I can't believe how dumb it is! It's amazing for me to see how
It's almost election day. I'm glad it's going to be here, and be done (hopefully), because I'm so sick to death of all of the commercials and all of the signs all over the place. I'm scared for the outcome of the election. I see people's posts on Facebook, and I get nervous! I've seen the events of fasting and prayer in behalf of the election. Events like that, or reading the Book of Mormon in said amount of time, I don't rsvp to, because I think that those things are very personal. However, seeing the negative comments on such events, makes me sad. People say that Heavenly Father wouldn't take part in politics, and that praying for such is wrong. I disagree whole heartedly! Heavenly Father will answer a prayer to help me find my keys, and that is such a miniscule thing in whole realm of existence, what makes anyone think he won't answer prayers in behalf of a nation. Reading the Bible or the Book of Mormon, you can see the Lord's hand in ALL civilizations. He didn't just send us here, to be on our own, although a lot of people think that, he sent us here to learn and grow and overcome trials and temptations. He sent us with help, and that's for all of us individually and as a whole.
Okay, I'm off my soap box now! Hope everyone is doing well!
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
October... So Not my Favorite!!!
Often people are so excited for October. The fresh, crisp air, the cooler temperatures, the changing colors, etc... Don't get me wrong, I enjoy all of that! However, October is full of sadness for me! I try to not to dwell on things, and keep going, because there's nothing else to do, but it's still there.
People that haven't lost a loved one won't understand what I'm talking about, but the empty feeling is overwhelming at times. You don't really talk about it to "outsiders," because you don't want to make them uncomfortable, and you don't know how they feel about the subject. Some friends say it's totally fine, but then act kind of nervous when you're talking about it. That's totally fine, and I understand that. One day I got a message from a guy friend of mine that said, "one day you'll have to tell me about your dad..." It was the first time any guy has said anything like that, and only really close friends have ever asked about him. I was so impressed, because my dad is part of who I am, and sometimes I feel that not talking about him is denying his existence. I know it's not, but there are so many parts of me, that are because of him, that I think it will help people know me better.
So, that being said, I try to not let it affect me, but it does. I'm the type of person that never wants to hurt anyone, so instead of saying anything, I just hold my feelings inside, until they burst! Well, the same thing happens with this hurt I feel inside. I hold it in, and don't talk about it much. I don't want to make my family hurt, so it's a subject that we are very careful about. We talk about him a lot, but on those actual days, we struggle to. Anyways, so that hurt stays inside, but tends to make me very tense, at times, and sometimes a little more fiesty than normal.
I tend to get my feelings hurt more easily. This time around, I cry, I cry easily! So things that aren't such a big deal, and then other things that really are a big deal to me, I just cry. Not the best way to win friends and influence people :S. I'm not going to say that I hurt anybody, because I don't know that I have, but I do know I've made someone(s) mad at me. I'm sorry for that!
I was reading Neal L. Anderson's talk "Trial of Your Faith", and see that the challenges for me aren't as big as many that others are going through. It created a self awareness that I needed to see. I love general conference!
Let's just say, I'm really glad that October is nearly over! I hope that I'll get back to being my normal, happy self. I hope that I still have friends when it's done :)
Saturday, September 29, 2012
Stuff...
It's been an insanely busy few weeks! I had everything under control and timed correctly to get everything I needed to be done on time, whether it was for young womens or my conference. I had a couple situations that distracted me from the task at hand. Then a client of mine needed his stuff done, IMMEDIATELY! So, I had very little sleep, and didn't feel as into my conference as I wanted to be.
My mind was wandering over the situations, and over this house that was huge, and I just felt run down. We had Standards Night in the middle of it, and it came time to pick the hymns, and I just felt like picking "High on a Mountain Top" and "I am a Child of God." Then we sat there listening to the great talk, and both songs fit perfectly! I was amazed I could be guided, when I so was not feeling it!
This conference was longer and bigger then ever before. It ran Sept. 17-23. Personally, I think it was too long, but I really enjoyed all of the activities, except for maybe the dance. I am so grateful for all of the help! I did a lot of work beforehand, but had those that helped not been there for the things I was over, it never would have happened!
We had a Photo Scavenger Hunt FHE. Service projects at the Utah Food Bank and the Bountiful Food Pantry. Brad Wilcox did a mid-week devotional and was freaking amazing! We had an ice cream trough for dessert, idea credit goes to Emma. It was way fun! They did a temple night at the Salt Lake Temple (I was at Standards Night). Friday night was an EXTREME carnival. Emma, Jeanine, and Garrett were amazing planning this activity! We had blow up toys, like jousting, sumo, and an obstacle course. We had giant checkers, giant jenga, giant twister, Angry Birds, a photo booth, human bowling, popcorn, sno cones, cotton candy, s'mores, and a food truck, that was delicious! It was so much fun!
Saturday was my day, well the day that most of my things I stressed about was on. I had Matt Townsend as our keynote speaker. He did an amazing job! He was so right on with what the midsingles needed to hear, it was fantastic! We had awesome workshops, games, food and fun! The main complaint of the conference was about the dance. We reserved an indoor soccer place and had a live band. It should've been awesome! Fun venue. Fun band. Well, the band never really played songs you could dance to, so it was like a concert on a soccer field. There were big stresses the whole time planning the dance part, and setting it up, and all of that! Next time I want it to be easier, even though I still want it at a fun venue. My friend, John, got us a stage for the band, and that was the biggest headache, so I'm so grateful he took care of that for me! There was a lot of physical labor this time around, because of the stage, transporting tables and chairs from the church to the field and back, plus set up and take down at the church. It was big!
I've compiled my list of the things I loved and things that needed work. I'm sure others have suggestions, too. Overall, it was a great experience!
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On other notes, I've been getting a kick out of the differences between men and women. Women for some reason have to give all of these details and feel like it's important to share that, whether it's talking in person, texting, email, etc... So, I type this big long whatever, and the guy responds with "ok" or "cool." It drives me insane! I'm going to work on being less wordy :) Then, I don't talk that much, when it's one on one, but I say something, that seemed important or maybe was funny in my head, and I just get this look like, "really?" Then, I'm always like, I should just stop talking! So dumb! Or the situation of relationships changing, it's one way one day, and then completely different the next; and, in the cases I've seen recently, the guy is so quick to move to the next opportunity, and the girl is left going, Whoa, was that even real? Sometimes it is really hard to tell. Especially being one that is especially cautious about getting involved, and then takes a long time to get over it; even when it was my decision. It's just been interesting!
Oh, and I have been on two dates now where I've seen one of my laurels on a date. Such a weird feeling! The first one was funny, and she was way cute. The latest one, I'm glad I was there, and could inadvertently stop a situation from continuing, at least where we were. I sure hope she didn't drive somewhere else and continue the activity. So strange!
This is a board with three different kitchen designs.
This is the bathroom design. It all was a basement.
My mind was wandering over the situations, and over this house that was huge, and I just felt run down. We had Standards Night in the middle of it, and it came time to pick the hymns, and I just felt like picking "High on a Mountain Top" and "I am a Child of God." Then we sat there listening to the great talk, and both songs fit perfectly! I was amazed I could be guided, when I so was not feeling it!
This conference was longer and bigger then ever before. It ran Sept. 17-23. Personally, I think it was too long, but I really enjoyed all of the activities, except for maybe the dance. I am so grateful for all of the help! I did a lot of work beforehand, but had those that helped not been there for the things I was over, it never would have happened!
We had a Photo Scavenger Hunt FHE. Service projects at the Utah Food Bank and the Bountiful Food Pantry. Brad Wilcox did a mid-week devotional and was freaking amazing! We had an ice cream trough for dessert, idea credit goes to Emma. It was way fun! They did a temple night at the Salt Lake Temple (I was at Standards Night). Friday night was an EXTREME carnival. Emma, Jeanine, and Garrett were amazing planning this activity! We had blow up toys, like jousting, sumo, and an obstacle course. We had giant checkers, giant jenga, giant twister, Angry Birds, a photo booth, human bowling, popcorn, sno cones, cotton candy, s'mores, and a food truck, that was delicious! It was so much fun!
Saturday was my day, well the day that most of my things I stressed about was on. I had Matt Townsend as our keynote speaker. He did an amazing job! He was so right on with what the midsingles needed to hear, it was fantastic! We had awesome workshops, games, food and fun! The main complaint of the conference was about the dance. We reserved an indoor soccer place and had a live band. It should've been awesome! Fun venue. Fun band. Well, the band never really played songs you could dance to, so it was like a concert on a soccer field. There were big stresses the whole time planning the dance part, and setting it up, and all of that! Next time I want it to be easier, even though I still want it at a fun venue. My friend, John, got us a stage for the band, and that was the biggest headache, so I'm so grateful he took care of that for me! There was a lot of physical labor this time around, because of the stage, transporting tables and chairs from the church to the field and back, plus set up and take down at the church. It was big!
I've compiled my list of the things I loved and things that needed work. I'm sure others have suggestions, too. Overall, it was a great experience!
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
On other notes, I've been getting a kick out of the differences between men and women. Women for some reason have to give all of these details and feel like it's important to share that, whether it's talking in person, texting, email, etc... So, I type this big long whatever, and the guy responds with "ok" or "cool." It drives me insane! I'm going to work on being less wordy :) Then, I don't talk that much, when it's one on one, but I say something, that seemed important or maybe was funny in my head, and I just get this look like, "really?" Then, I'm always like, I should just stop talking! So dumb! Or the situation of relationships changing, it's one way one day, and then completely different the next; and, in the cases I've seen recently, the guy is so quick to move to the next opportunity, and the girl is left going, Whoa, was that even real? Sometimes it is really hard to tell. Especially being one that is especially cautious about getting involved, and then takes a long time to get over it; even when it was my decision. It's just been interesting!
Oh, and I have been on two dates now where I've seen one of my laurels on a date. Such a weird feeling! The first one was funny, and she was way cute. The latest one, I'm glad I was there, and could inadvertently stop a situation from continuing, at least where we were. I sure hope she didn't drive somewhere else and continue the activity. So strange!
Wednesday, August 22, 2012
August- Weekends Outdoors!
This has been a great month, so far!
The first Saturday of the month, my friend, John, took me up American Fork Canyon, one of my most favorite places of all time! We drove around, had a picnic, did a little hiking and took fun photos. It was beautiful! I loved every minute of it!
The next Saturday we had a Canoeing at Causey MidSingles activity. The water levels were really low. There were about 20 people total, some came up later than others. We had the perfect amount for the amount of canoes we rented. (Bottom two pics, courtesy of Jared :)) I was afraid to take a camera out on the water, with my luck, it would've ended up on the bottom of the lake!
I left Causey, got cleaned up, and headed to Snowbird, where we were for a week!
Great month! This Saturday, I'm going to Moab, and the next weekend St. George!
The first Saturday of the month, my friend, John, took me up American Fork Canyon, one of my most favorite places of all time! We drove around, had a picnic, did a little hiking and took fun photos. It was beautiful! I loved every minute of it!
I left Causey, got cleaned up, and headed to Snowbird, where we were for a week!
Great month! This Saturday, I'm going to Moab, and the next weekend St. George!
Friday, August 3, 2012
The other night, I was out in the parking lot at church talking to one of my good friends, and one of the midsingles came over and talked to us. She has a lot of challenges in her life, healthwise. She was talking about all of the things her siblings have done, that she's not been able to, and said, "...but that's okay. I'm waiting for the Second Coming, and then I'll be able to be perfect and do all of those things, but until then..."
What a fantastic outlook on life! It was a great reminder!
What a fantastic outlook on life! It was a great reminder!
Summer!
It's been a while, again! Since my last post lots has gone on! My computer died at Daughters of Faith, so that's one of the reasons I haven't blogged. (This loaner computer stinks, and sometimes doesn't read the keystroke, but sometimes doubles the keystroke, so I'll try to make sure I spell check, but forgive me if there are mistakes.)
So, I'm going to write by month what has gone on...
June
Months ago I emailed Jenny Oaks Baker to see if she could do a fireside for the midsingles. I never heard from her, so I didn't think anything of it. For whatever reason, I've branched out and am able to ask people I don't know to do devotionals; I still feel funny asking people I know to do things. So, on May 30, I got an email back from her saying she'd be able to do it either on June 24 or on August 26. I already had one scheduled for August, so we went with June. She was really concerned that she was spreading herself too thin, and not enough people would attend. Here's a link to her "Amazing Grace" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7uQIPFc-8jw. Listen through her talk, you'll love the music, and her message on faith is fantastic!
She called me two days later and said that she couldn't do it that day anymore, because her accompanist wasn't going to be in town until July. Before I could even think, out of my mouth popped, "Well, I can do it! I am a piano teacher." Her first question was, "You're a piano teacher, but can you actually play anything or are you one of THOSE teachers?" I told her I could pretty much play anything, and she said, "Okay, I'll send you some music soon," and that was that. After getting off the phone, I was like, "What the heck did I just say?"
I know that I've worked really hard, nearly my entire life, to play the piano. I had a fantastic teacher that taught me so much, and loved me, and that made me all the better. However, I have to acknowledge that my sight reading abilities are a true gift from Heavenly Father. Had I not practiced all that I have, I wouldn't have known of that gift, and I am so grateful for it!
She sent me most of the music, and it was a challenge! I practiced and practiced and practiced. My mom at one point said, "You know there is such thing as practicing TOO much." I practiced at home, I practiced at the church, etc. and then went to Daughters of Faith four days before.
DOF is a camp just for laurels (young women 16-18 years old). It's an amazing two days of total devotion to feeling the Spirit and learning the gospel. Not unlike years passed, it was amazing! I didn't get to participate in a lot of the things, because I had to put together the slideshow, and that took FOREVER! Then we had this really neat activity that talked about the journey of the golden plates from Nephi to Moroni to Joseph Smith and then to us. It was amazing! Then I showed this short message http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHY-Y9yraR8. It's so touching! Elder Holland is amazing! Then, I unplugged the projector from my computer, and my computer fried! So horrendous! So, the next day, I had to spend the whole day doing another slideshow on someone else's computer. I only broke down twice about this, so I think I was alright! Cute Cassie kept checking on me! She was great!
When I got home, I got to practicing, and Jenny and I set up a time to practice on Saturday at 11:30. She was busy teaching at a Suzuki camp, and we had a half hour to practice seven songs! In my mind, I kept thinking about musicians and artists and what kind of people they are, but then I was thinking who she was a daughter of, and I figured I'd get a mix of the two. Well, let's just say, it was a terrifying next 32 hours! We didn't ever get to go through a whole song without stopping for some interruption, and we didn't play through the last song, which I had just gotten all of it that day. We set up a run through time for Sunday, and that was that. Sunday came, and it was one of the busiest days of my life! Thank heavens for those girls and guys that came to help set up, and all the people that brought refreshments. Jenny had emailed me in the morning asking for someone to tend her kids during the devotional, and to bump our time up by about 15 minutes. My cute cousin, Ashley, babysat the kids, and I was ready to practice when she wanted. She called a minute before it was time, and said she was going to be late, and that we wouldn't have time to practice. She thought we'd be fine, though. This was pretty stressful to me, but showed she had confidence in me, so that helped me out.
Her message was about having faith. It was interesting, because as she ws sharing certain scriptures, my mom was giving me the look of "you should be listening, this will help you out." She knew how scared I was! She talked about how watching one of her friends having a baby and getting married and having an awesome job made her think, "Hey, I'm following the commandments, why aren't these things happening for me?" Let's just say it hit really close to home! I only had a couple mistakes, one that was quite big, and she gave me a look, but other than that, I felt really good about it. I gave the guy conducting the program, and didn't have me on it, because I didn't want it to be about me. I was accompanying, and that was it. In her introduction, she announced, "Pyper Nicholes and I are going to perform for you tonight." It was really amazing! I had some great support there, Mom, Grandma JaNae, Bart, Jen, Linds, her roommate, Ashley, and Amy and her parents. It was amazing! At the end, I was so touched, because not only was there a huge line to meet her, there was a line to talk to me.
If you're still reading... we're to July!!!
Well, sort of... On June 30, one of my most favorite people threw me a birthday party! It was so much fun! Amy was still in town, and I was thrilled she was here! Her dad brought his karaoke stuff, and we ate, played games, visited, and sang karaoke. It was a great night! There was a funny mix of people, from work, my neighborhood, my family and my midsingles. It was fantastic!
I turned 32 on July 4th. It was a great day! It's so weird to think my dad was my age when he passed away. On july 11th, I was exactly the same age, and it may sound morbid, but that day has been in my mind for a very long time. I was thinking that there was something wrong with me, in thinking that if I made it past July 11th, I'd be fine. Reading that right now, makes me feel like the biggest dork! However, a few days ago, Collin had a scare that ended up being that he was dehydrated, but he immediately said to mom that he knew she was worried, because he was 29, and dad was 29 when his heart stuff started. My heart broke for him that he was scared about it, but I know that I am not alone in my weird concerns.
July was filled with lots of busy-ness, lots of family, lots of friends, and pretty much a great time! I have one huge complaint, and that is with PC Laptops! They claim to have great service, and great products. They do have great warranties. However, there service stinks! I bought my laptop in November from them, and have never been as satisfied as I was with my hp laptop, but I've been fine with it. When it died at DOF, I took it in, and they told me it would be 4-6 days, 9 days later, I called, after I had called since day number 5, and they said it was just sitting there waiting for me. I was thrilled to have it back. I got it home, and there was no sound, so I took it back in on Monday, and they had it for a few days, then said I could have it back again, so I could show the slideshow at the DOF fireside, but needed to have it back on Monday, and they'd give me a loaner computer, and it worked only with external speakers. I was sick that Monday, so I took it in on Tuesday. I stood there for 25 minutes, because the guy that usually helps me was helping someone else, and no one wanted to help me. I finally asked them to at least start the paperwork, and so the guy took my laptop, but didn't give me the loaner one. Then, Sterling, the guy that is working on my computer finally came over and told me the loaner wasn't going to be there for a couple days, and he'd call me. He never did! I kept calling, and they never said it was there. The next Friday, so a week later, my computer died, again! So, I took it in, and Sterling acted put out that I was in a hurry to leave, because he had stuff to do, but I had not ever been told the loaner was there, so I didn't know we were doing a data transfer. When I was leaving, I said, "Now you're really going to call me when my computer is ready, right?" He said of course he would. I responded with, "Well, you keep saying that, but not once have you or anyone else here ever called me to tell me anything or return any of my phone calls." He apologized, and said he'd call me in 10 days when it was ready. Well as of today, it has been 14 days, and still no phone call!!! The final diagnosis for the computer was a fried hard drive, partially fried motherboard, and fried internal speakers. They had said they hadn't seen anything like it before.
We had girls camp the last week of July, and it was a great experience for the girls! I wish I was of more use up there. They didn't really have our presidency do anything, other than one activity on the last day.
We had a three hour block, where each ward and our presidency had a tent, and we'd do 20 minute rotations, working on a value in Personal Progress (https://www.lds.org/young-women/personal-progress?lang=eng). Our presidency had the value of Virtue. There aren't a lot of things you can do in 20 minutes for Virtue, but we had a great time! Cyd had found an activity that young women had a glow in the dark bow on their backs, and they had to run through the dark, through some obstacles, keeping the bow (which represented their virtue) and make it to the end, where there was a picture of the temple.
Since it was daylight, and we were outside, we had to alter the plan. We played flag football. We had three girls with gold flags in their pocket, race to get up the hill to the picture of the temple, while Mom, Cyd and I tried to steal their "virtue." It was really fun! Then I had the girls take a piece of unwrapped candy, which looked like it was going to be sweet, but really was a warhead, and talked about how Satan impersonates the Spirit and ways to develop strengths that will help you discern where the impressions are coming from. Cyd gave them Treasures that were chocolate with caramel or peanut butter in it, and talked about how our virtue is our treasure. Mom went through their Virtue project #3 that has them read Alma 5 (https://www.lds.org/scriptures/bofm/alma/5?lang=eng#) It was such a great experience! It was really fun for them to get to know us on a different level, than just sitting in the meetings with them.
Let's just say this summer has been great, and it's not over yet! I've been learning lots and enjoying lots of things and people!
So, I'm going to write by month what has gone on...
June
Months ago I emailed Jenny Oaks Baker to see if she could do a fireside for the midsingles. I never heard from her, so I didn't think anything of it. For whatever reason, I've branched out and am able to ask people I don't know to do devotionals; I still feel funny asking people I know to do things. So, on May 30, I got an email back from her saying she'd be able to do it either on June 24 or on August 26. I already had one scheduled for August, so we went with June. She was really concerned that she was spreading herself too thin, and not enough people would attend. Here's a link to her "Amazing Grace" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7uQIPFc-8jw. Listen through her talk, you'll love the music, and her message on faith is fantastic!
She called me two days later and said that she couldn't do it that day anymore, because her accompanist wasn't going to be in town until July. Before I could even think, out of my mouth popped, "Well, I can do it! I am a piano teacher." Her first question was, "You're a piano teacher, but can you actually play anything or are you one of THOSE teachers?" I told her I could pretty much play anything, and she said, "Okay, I'll send you some music soon," and that was that. After getting off the phone, I was like, "What the heck did I just say?"
I know that I've worked really hard, nearly my entire life, to play the piano. I had a fantastic teacher that taught me so much, and loved me, and that made me all the better. However, I have to acknowledge that my sight reading abilities are a true gift from Heavenly Father. Had I not practiced all that I have, I wouldn't have known of that gift, and I am so grateful for it!
She sent me most of the music, and it was a challenge! I practiced and practiced and practiced. My mom at one point said, "You know there is such thing as practicing TOO much." I practiced at home, I practiced at the church, etc. and then went to Daughters of Faith four days before.
DOF is a camp just for laurels (young women 16-18 years old). It's an amazing two days of total devotion to feeling the Spirit and learning the gospel. Not unlike years passed, it was amazing! I didn't get to participate in a lot of the things, because I had to put together the slideshow, and that took FOREVER! Then we had this really neat activity that talked about the journey of the golden plates from Nephi to Moroni to Joseph Smith and then to us. It was amazing! Then I showed this short message http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHY-Y9yraR8. It's so touching! Elder Holland is amazing! Then, I unplugged the projector from my computer, and my computer fried! So horrendous! So, the next day, I had to spend the whole day doing another slideshow on someone else's computer. I only broke down twice about this, so I think I was alright! Cute Cassie kept checking on me! She was great!
When I got home, I got to practicing, and Jenny and I set up a time to practice on Saturday at 11:30. She was busy teaching at a Suzuki camp, and we had a half hour to practice seven songs! In my mind, I kept thinking about musicians and artists and what kind of people they are, but then I was thinking who she was a daughter of, and I figured I'd get a mix of the two. Well, let's just say, it was a terrifying next 32 hours! We didn't ever get to go through a whole song without stopping for some interruption, and we didn't play through the last song, which I had just gotten all of it that day. We set up a run through time for Sunday, and that was that. Sunday came, and it was one of the busiest days of my life! Thank heavens for those girls and guys that came to help set up, and all the people that brought refreshments. Jenny had emailed me in the morning asking for someone to tend her kids during the devotional, and to bump our time up by about 15 minutes. My cute cousin, Ashley, babysat the kids, and I was ready to practice when she wanted. She called a minute before it was time, and said she was going to be late, and that we wouldn't have time to practice. She thought we'd be fine, though. This was pretty stressful to me, but showed she had confidence in me, so that helped me out.
Her message was about having faith. It was interesting, because as she ws sharing certain scriptures, my mom was giving me the look of "you should be listening, this will help you out." She knew how scared I was! She talked about how watching one of her friends having a baby and getting married and having an awesome job made her think, "Hey, I'm following the commandments, why aren't these things happening for me?" Let's just say it hit really close to home! I only had a couple mistakes, one that was quite big, and she gave me a look, but other than that, I felt really good about it. I gave the guy conducting the program, and didn't have me on it, because I didn't want it to be about me. I was accompanying, and that was it. In her introduction, she announced, "Pyper Nicholes and I are going to perform for you tonight." It was really amazing! I had some great support there, Mom, Grandma JaNae, Bart, Jen, Linds, her roommate, Ashley, and Amy and her parents. It was amazing! At the end, I was so touched, because not only was there a huge line to meet her, there was a line to talk to me.
If you're still reading... we're to July!!!
Well, sort of... On June 30, one of my most favorite people threw me a birthday party! It was so much fun! Amy was still in town, and I was thrilled she was here! Her dad brought his karaoke stuff, and we ate, played games, visited, and sang karaoke. It was a great night! There was a funny mix of people, from work, my neighborhood, my family and my midsingles. It was fantastic!
I turned 32 on July 4th. It was a great day! It's so weird to think my dad was my age when he passed away. On july 11th, I was exactly the same age, and it may sound morbid, but that day has been in my mind for a very long time. I was thinking that there was something wrong with me, in thinking that if I made it past July 11th, I'd be fine. Reading that right now, makes me feel like the biggest dork! However, a few days ago, Collin had a scare that ended up being that he was dehydrated, but he immediately said to mom that he knew she was worried, because he was 29, and dad was 29 when his heart stuff started. My heart broke for him that he was scared about it, but I know that I am not alone in my weird concerns.
July was filled with lots of busy-ness, lots of family, lots of friends, and pretty much a great time! I have one huge complaint, and that is with PC Laptops! They claim to have great service, and great products. They do have great warranties. However, there service stinks! I bought my laptop in November from them, and have never been as satisfied as I was with my hp laptop, but I've been fine with it. When it died at DOF, I took it in, and they told me it would be 4-6 days, 9 days later, I called, after I had called since day number 5, and they said it was just sitting there waiting for me. I was thrilled to have it back. I got it home, and there was no sound, so I took it back in on Monday, and they had it for a few days, then said I could have it back again, so I could show the slideshow at the DOF fireside, but needed to have it back on Monday, and they'd give me a loaner computer, and it worked only with external speakers. I was sick that Monday, so I took it in on Tuesday. I stood there for 25 minutes, because the guy that usually helps me was helping someone else, and no one wanted to help me. I finally asked them to at least start the paperwork, and so the guy took my laptop, but didn't give me the loaner one. Then, Sterling, the guy that is working on my computer finally came over and told me the loaner wasn't going to be there for a couple days, and he'd call me. He never did! I kept calling, and they never said it was there. The next Friday, so a week later, my computer died, again! So, I took it in, and Sterling acted put out that I was in a hurry to leave, because he had stuff to do, but I had not ever been told the loaner was there, so I didn't know we were doing a data transfer. When I was leaving, I said, "Now you're really going to call me when my computer is ready, right?" He said of course he would. I responded with, "Well, you keep saying that, but not once have you or anyone else here ever called me to tell me anything or return any of my phone calls." He apologized, and said he'd call me in 10 days when it was ready. Well as of today, it has been 14 days, and still no phone call!!! The final diagnosis for the computer was a fried hard drive, partially fried motherboard, and fried internal speakers. They had said they hadn't seen anything like it before.
We had girls camp the last week of July, and it was a great experience for the girls! I wish I was of more use up there. They didn't really have our presidency do anything, other than one activity on the last day.
We had a three hour block, where each ward and our presidency had a tent, and we'd do 20 minute rotations, working on a value in Personal Progress (https://www.lds.org/young-women/personal-progress?lang=eng). Our presidency had the value of Virtue. There aren't a lot of things you can do in 20 minutes for Virtue, but we had a great time! Cyd had found an activity that young women had a glow in the dark bow on their backs, and they had to run through the dark, through some obstacles, keeping the bow (which represented their virtue) and make it to the end, where there was a picture of the temple.
Since it was daylight, and we were outside, we had to alter the plan. We played flag football. We had three girls with gold flags in their pocket, race to get up the hill to the picture of the temple, while Mom, Cyd and I tried to steal their "virtue." It was really fun! Then I had the girls take a piece of unwrapped candy, which looked like it was going to be sweet, but really was a warhead, and talked about how Satan impersonates the Spirit and ways to develop strengths that will help you discern where the impressions are coming from. Cyd gave them Treasures that were chocolate with caramel or peanut butter in it, and talked about how our virtue is our treasure. Mom went through their Virtue project #3 that has them read Alma 5 (https://www.lds.org/scriptures/bofm/alma/5?lang=eng#) It was such a great experience! It was really fun for them to get to know us on a different level, than just sitting in the meetings with them.
Let's just say this summer has been great, and it's not over yet! I've been learning lots and enjoying lots of things and people!
Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Lessons...
I don't know that I ever mentioned this before, but a neighbor and good friend of ours passed away on April 20th. He helped us so much! He was always looking out for Mom, and making sure she had everything taken care of. One day we came home and had a new mailbox. When our bathroom was fixed for us, while we were gone, we came home to new lighting in the bathroom and the garage. He couldn't believe that two single women would come home, without having any light on in the garage. The other night the lightbulb on the garage door opener died, and everytime I'm out there, I think about Scott and that he's probably put out with us letting it stay that way.
The night before he passed away, he called me and said he was someone from the Jehovah's Witnesses and that they'd been observing me, etc... Then he said, "Just kidding, it's Scott..." and went on about how he wanted to be a good piano dad, so could I please explain somethings to him. So, as he asked me questions about symbols, he'd play them to see if he got it right, so he could help his son. I have to say that this is the first time, ever, that a dad had gotten so involved with his kids piano lessons.
The next morning, there were things going on down the street, and I knew something was up, but had no idea it would be that. I was kind of in denial, because it seemed totally impossible. It was really strange, and too familiar! His oldest is just younger than I was when my dad died, his daughter is how old Collin was, and then they have a baby, that just turned one last month. His wife was teaching part time, my mom was teaching part time. His wife was in the relief society presidency, my mom was in the relief society presidency. Our neighbor across the street was over at their house, she was over at the house next door, where I was when we found out about dad. Just too familiar!
I found myself being grateful that I knew what they were going to go through, so I could help them through it. Had I been in different circumstances, maybe having a family of my own, and not living around here, I wouldn't be able to help them. I'm really glad that I was already teaching their oldest, so we had a relationship already, because he feels comfortable with me already. His first lesson after his dad died, he told me he'd be really good at this part, because his dad made him practice a ton. Then, he did really well, and he said, "It's like someone is helping me, but no one is." That's the kind of gift you get from your deceased relatives. I know that Heavenly Father lets them help us.
Another lesson I've learned through the example of someone I admire and appreciate, is how I deserve to be treated. Thank you!
The night before he passed away, he called me and said he was someone from the Jehovah's Witnesses and that they'd been observing me, etc... Then he said, "Just kidding, it's Scott..." and went on about how he wanted to be a good piano dad, so could I please explain somethings to him. So, as he asked me questions about symbols, he'd play them to see if he got it right, so he could help his son. I have to say that this is the first time, ever, that a dad had gotten so involved with his kids piano lessons.
The next morning, there were things going on down the street, and I knew something was up, but had no idea it would be that. I was kind of in denial, because it seemed totally impossible. It was really strange, and too familiar! His oldest is just younger than I was when my dad died, his daughter is how old Collin was, and then they have a baby, that just turned one last month. His wife was teaching part time, my mom was teaching part time. His wife was in the relief society presidency, my mom was in the relief society presidency. Our neighbor across the street was over at their house, she was over at the house next door, where I was when we found out about dad. Just too familiar!
I found myself being grateful that I knew what they were going to go through, so I could help them through it. Had I been in different circumstances, maybe having a family of my own, and not living around here, I wouldn't be able to help them. I'm really glad that I was already teaching their oldest, so we had a relationship already, because he feels comfortable with me already. His first lesson after his dad died, he told me he'd be really good at this part, because his dad made him practice a ton. Then, he did really well, and he said, "It's like someone is helping me, but no one is." That's the kind of gift you get from your deceased relatives. I know that Heavenly Father lets them help us.
Another lesson I've learned through the example of someone I admire and appreciate, is how I deserve to be treated. Thank you!
Monday, May 28, 2012
I went to this fireside on dating about a month ago. It was really funny, well, I thought it was funny! It was all about the approach and ways for men to handle rejection, and still look like they have confidence, and for women to make sure they touch a guy they're interested in, in a certain way, no patting, you need to brush their arm with your palm, not just fingertips... stuff like that. I was laughing at most of it! It was really funny to see how these dumb things she was suggesting would actually work. The whole reason I went, was because she had written an article that someone sent to me once about why he wasn't dating, and I wanted to see her in person. Anyways, during the meeting people were acting like this information was life or death to them. There were moments of awkwardness, when she said things not to do, that I know I've done, and that I'd even said some of these things, that I shouldn't have, according to her, and I'd said them to someone that was sitting pretty close in proximity to me. I actually did reject someone the way she suggested to, once, and he was there, and wouldn't even look at me. Can we say AWKWARD!? After the fireside, while eating refreshments, people were practicing on each other. It was hilarious! She did say "to practice on your B list, not your A list," and people were taking advantage of the opportunity :)
Anyways, since then I've thought about some of the things she said, and I have to say I agree with her on some of the things. She talked about how the girl needs to feel safe. I hadn't ever really thought about that, probably dumb of me, but it never even crossed my mind that I hadn't felt safe with people. I know I'm pretty shy, and I don't talk much when I first meet someone, but I just thought that was because I was shy. (The funny thing is that whenever I'm in front of a crowd, like doing my midsingles things, I may get nervous, but it's my responsibility to lead, so I lead and talk and do whatever else is required of me.) Well, I can tell you the day I realized I felt safe in this friendship/relationship and I understood what she meant. I also realized that I don't open up very quickly, because I don't feel safe to. An example is that I can plan some huge activity for the midsingles and feel confidant people will come. However, if I think of planning a game night with friends, I sit and worry that no one would come. Sometimes it takes me a long time to build up the courage to text someone, what is that about?! It's a text! Another weird side to this is that I can call up anyone and ask them to do a fireside or present at a conference, but if I have to call someone I know to do one of those things, it takes me ten years to decide I can actually do it! So backwards! Anyways, that's my venting for the day, now that that's off my shoulders, I can stop feeling like a dork for a dumb text tonight :)
Anyways, since then I've thought about some of the things she said, and I have to say I agree with her on some of the things. She talked about how the girl needs to feel safe. I hadn't ever really thought about that, probably dumb of me, but it never even crossed my mind that I hadn't felt safe with people. I know I'm pretty shy, and I don't talk much when I first meet someone, but I just thought that was because I was shy. (The funny thing is that whenever I'm in front of a crowd, like doing my midsingles things, I may get nervous, but it's my responsibility to lead, so I lead and talk and do whatever else is required of me.) Well, I can tell you the day I realized I felt safe in this friendship/relationship and I understood what she meant. I also realized that I don't open up very quickly, because I don't feel safe to. An example is that I can plan some huge activity for the midsingles and feel confidant people will come. However, if I think of planning a game night with friends, I sit and worry that no one would come. Sometimes it takes me a long time to build up the courage to text someone, what is that about?! It's a text! Another weird side to this is that I can call up anyone and ask them to do a fireside or present at a conference, but if I have to call someone I know to do one of those things, it takes me ten years to decide I can actually do it! So backwards! Anyways, that's my venting for the day, now that that's off my shoulders, I can stop feeling like a dork for a dumb text tonight :)
Thursday, May 10, 2012
My conference is over and now my young women leadership meeting is over, so now I can think again. I have to say that my brain struggled changing from being MidSingles oriented to being Young Women oriented. I actually was wondering what in the world was wrong with me, and kept praying for direction on what I should do for the leadership meeting, and it didn't come until yesterday. I guess that's the way it works. I procrastinate, but eventually it works out.
I don't remember what I posted prior to the conference, about the conference, so I hope I don't bore you with stuff I've already said.
There were moments in the planning of the conference that I questioned what I was doing and why; whether I was being directed in the right direction or if it was just me. You all know those doubts that creep up. It was so inspiring and amazing to see how everything pulled together, and be able to see that we really were being guided in what we had planned.
The friday night activity was going to be night games, but the weather didn't cooperate, it was way too cold. We ended up doing games inside, though, and it was way fun! Not all people participated, but it was fun for the ones that did.
Saturday was full of workshops, service projects, games, a keynote speaker in the morning, food, a Greg Simpson Band concert and a dance with karaoke, video games and a photobooth. It was awesome! Elder Fluhman of the Seventy was our keynote speaker. When I had told Cyd about him, she said that I needed to have his wife speak, as well, because she is a great lady. I didn't know about doing that, since I hadn't had any contact with him, but I thought it was a great idea. Well, that morning he walked in, was introduced to me, and said, "Now, Pyper, my wife is here, and I think you need to have her share something." It was so cool! She said she'd be fine just listening, but ended up sharing some stuff. It was great!
The workshops that I got to attend were amazing, and exactly what I felt they should be, when I asked these people to do it. My stake is great! I may have mentioned this before, and maybe I'm biased, but we had Louise Sill and Pres. Downs come and present, and I heard comments all day about how their messages had inspired people. My favorite quote from Louise was that the scriptures always say, "And it came to pass..." they don't say, "And it came to stay..." It's so true! All of our trials and struggles come, but they pass, unless we dwell on them. Then, they won't pass as quickly as they may have. Our lunch was provided by a guy in our stake, and then the deejay was from our stake. I sure hope that the stake isn't tired of helping me out, because I already have people in mind for the next time :)
On Sunday night, S. Michael Wilcox did our fireside. It was amazing! I have always loved the story of Jesus walking on the water, and coming to save the apostles in the fourth watch of the night. (http://www.lds.org/scriptures/nt/mark/6?lang=eng). That's how He is, He could save us at the beginning of our trials, but he doesn't. He comes in when we feel we can no longer handle it. Bro. Wilcox said we have a fourth watch God, and we're a first watch kind of people. It's so true! At the beginning of the fireside, we had the choir sing Precious Savior, Dear Redeemer, arranged to the melody of Homeward Bound. I have always loved Homeward Bound, however, I have not loved the hymn book arrangement of Precious Savior, Dear Redeemer. Oh, my word, it was beautiful! The choir number was a stress for us for quite sometime, but then it just worked out, and I'm so thankful for those that were able to pull it together. Bro. Wilcox said that there are many songs that remind him of his wife, but there are three specific songs that make him feel her, everytime he hears one of them; and it just so happened that that was one of the songs. People were close to the spirit when they picked that out.
On friday night, I was so tired, I was laughing uncontrollably. It was so funny! I don't think many of the midsingles, if any, have ever seen me like that. Then, on Sunday during the closing song at the fireside, I just started bawling. It was so funny, too! I felt this huge weight lift off of my shoulders, that I hadn't even realized I was feeling.
There were so many great experiences, even down to having lost my keys, and had many people looking for them. Then, someone suggested we pray, and within 8 seconds (and I'm not even exaggerating) my keys were found, right where we'd already looked for them. The turn out wasn't as huge as I was hoping for, hopefully, it will be better next time. I do know without any doubt that all of those things were meant for someone, if not more than one, and that makes it all worth it! I'm so grateful for all of the people that helped with everything. I can't even put into words how grateful I am. It was such a neat experience, and very educational.
I don't remember what I posted prior to the conference, about the conference, so I hope I don't bore you with stuff I've already said.
There were moments in the planning of the conference that I questioned what I was doing and why; whether I was being directed in the right direction or if it was just me. You all know those doubts that creep up. It was so inspiring and amazing to see how everything pulled together, and be able to see that we really were being guided in what we had planned.
The friday night activity was going to be night games, but the weather didn't cooperate, it was way too cold. We ended up doing games inside, though, and it was way fun! Not all people participated, but it was fun for the ones that did.
Saturday was full of workshops, service projects, games, a keynote speaker in the morning, food, a Greg Simpson Band concert and a dance with karaoke, video games and a photobooth. It was awesome! Elder Fluhman of the Seventy was our keynote speaker. When I had told Cyd about him, she said that I needed to have his wife speak, as well, because she is a great lady. I didn't know about doing that, since I hadn't had any contact with him, but I thought it was a great idea. Well, that morning he walked in, was introduced to me, and said, "Now, Pyper, my wife is here, and I think you need to have her share something." It was so cool! She said she'd be fine just listening, but ended up sharing some stuff. It was great!
The workshops that I got to attend were amazing, and exactly what I felt they should be, when I asked these people to do it. My stake is great! I may have mentioned this before, and maybe I'm biased, but we had Louise Sill and Pres. Downs come and present, and I heard comments all day about how their messages had inspired people. My favorite quote from Louise was that the scriptures always say, "And it came to pass..." they don't say, "And it came to stay..." It's so true! All of our trials and struggles come, but they pass, unless we dwell on them. Then, they won't pass as quickly as they may have. Our lunch was provided by a guy in our stake, and then the deejay was from our stake. I sure hope that the stake isn't tired of helping me out, because I already have people in mind for the next time :)
On Sunday night, S. Michael Wilcox did our fireside. It was amazing! I have always loved the story of Jesus walking on the water, and coming to save the apostles in the fourth watch of the night. (http://www.lds.org/scriptures/nt/mark/6?lang=eng). That's how He is, He could save us at the beginning of our trials, but he doesn't. He comes in when we feel we can no longer handle it. Bro. Wilcox said we have a fourth watch God, and we're a first watch kind of people. It's so true! At the beginning of the fireside, we had the choir sing Precious Savior, Dear Redeemer, arranged to the melody of Homeward Bound. I have always loved Homeward Bound, however, I have not loved the hymn book arrangement of Precious Savior, Dear Redeemer. Oh, my word, it was beautiful! The choir number was a stress for us for quite sometime, but then it just worked out, and I'm so thankful for those that were able to pull it together. Bro. Wilcox said that there are many songs that remind him of his wife, but there are three specific songs that make him feel her, everytime he hears one of them; and it just so happened that that was one of the songs. People were close to the spirit when they picked that out.
On friday night, I was so tired, I was laughing uncontrollably. It was so funny! I don't think many of the midsingles, if any, have ever seen me like that. Then, on Sunday during the closing song at the fireside, I just started bawling. It was so funny, too! I felt this huge weight lift off of my shoulders, that I hadn't even realized I was feeling.
There were so many great experiences, even down to having lost my keys, and had many people looking for them. Then, someone suggested we pray, and within 8 seconds (and I'm not even exaggerating) my keys were found, right where we'd already looked for them. The turn out wasn't as huge as I was hoping for, hopefully, it will be better next time. I do know without any doubt that all of those things were meant for someone, if not more than one, and that makes it all worth it! I'm so grateful for all of the people that helped with everything. I can't even put into words how grateful I am. It was such a neat experience, and very educational.
Wednesday, April 18, 2012
In just over a week, the midsingles' conference I've been working on for the past four months will finally be here! I'm so excited! I keep worrying that I'm forgetting something, because I'm not too concerned about it, as long as people come. As previously mentioned here, I've taken on a new calling, in addition to my calling in the stake young women presidency.
It's an awesome thing to be a part of. I've had some great helpers in this huge endeavor. I was sonervous terrified to announce to the committee heads that I had this really strong impression, along with the scripture that was to be the theme, that we needed to do a conference in the spring. I hadn't had much to do with the planning of the one in the fall; I just came in towards the end of the planning and helped out with the finishing touches. I was scared of their reaction, whether they would support me or not. If I was more confident in myself, I'd probably be able to announce it in a way that they would just jump on board. However I announced it, apparently pretty timid, they said they would do it; not that they were jumping for joy over it. Some seemed way excited, and some I couldn't read. Seeing that everyone has a full-time job, some have kids, some have school, some are just crazy busy, and we all have our own callings in our own wards and stakes, I've wanted to make this as easy for them as possible. Apparently to the effect of making someone feel bad, even with my intents being to help out, it didn't. (Have I mentioned that midsingles range from 31-45? I am 31, so I'm a baby in the group, and haven't had all of the experience that some of these people have, so I'm learning as I go.) I, also, have a fantastic high councillor that is so supportive and amazing! I'm lucky getting to work with two amazing men, in my two positions, that have such strong testimonies in the gospel, that they will do all that is possible for any activity. I email Bro. Grant twenty times a day, sometimes, depending on what's going on. He's like an uncle to me; I have way more contact with him, than my real uncles. I just have to say that I have an awesome stake! So many people from our stake are helping out in Centerville with my conference, it's fantastic! I'm so grateful for the individual phone calls, texts and chats that have taken place, to help give me direction and understanding of what I've needed to be doing.
In the process of planning this, I've discovered things about myself. Some I'm glad I've found, some I hope I can change. Prior to this, I never asked anyone to do anything. If I had to ask something, like getting a reservation somewhere, I'd have Collin do it for me. I've contacted so many people about doing workshops, firesides, concerts, cooking, etc. Granted a lot of it has been via email, but that has still been a big step for me. I've been in awe speaking with some of the people I've talked to, i.e. S. Michael Wilcox, even though he was my institute teacher once; and Virginia H. Pearce, daughter of Pres. Hinckley. Just thinking that I was talking on the phone to a daughter of a prophet was so amazing to me.
I wish I didn't come across as being a strong woman, not that there's anything wrong with being strong; I'd really like someone to take care of me, though. The more strength I show, the more I wish I didn't. I don't like being so independent, and I really don't like doing so much on my own. If it comes to the point that I need to ask someone to help with something, my first concern is he (she) will think I'm ridiculous, because I can't handle something, or that what I need isn't nearly as important as whatever they're doing. I worry that I come across as not caring about people or stand-offish, because I don't let myself get close to people. It takes me a long time to get close, but once I am, I am forever.
I've found kind of a coping mechanism for me. I'm all business, a lot of the time. I just want to let go, and socialize; well, that's what I tell myself, but then when I'm in the situation that I can just socialize, I'm hoping for some task to come up, so I'll have a purpose, or I get out my phone. It's not happening as much as it used to, but every once in a while it sneaks up. I just have to say that sometimes it's lonely when you're in charge of something.
The other night we went to Get Air in Kaysville, and jumped on trampolines, and it was so much fun! I had no concerns of needing to get to a task, I was comfortable and having a great time.
Well, I think that's all of my ramblings, for now. I wish I could always keep the perspective of everything's going to work out, and not to worry about things. I'm really good at worrying, though. I get it from Grandma Mamie!
Whatever the case, I know that the Lord has had His hand in the planning of this conference, and I hope that those that attend will feel that, and know that He knows each of them individually, and loves them. He has great faith in them, because He knows what they can do, and He wants to see them reach their potential!
It's an awesome thing to be a part of. I've had some great helpers in this huge endeavor. I was so
In the process of planning this, I've discovered things about myself. Some I'm glad I've found, some I hope I can change. Prior to this, I never asked anyone to do anything. If I had to ask something, like getting a reservation somewhere, I'd have Collin do it for me. I've contacted so many people about doing workshops, firesides, concerts, cooking, etc. Granted a lot of it has been via email, but that has still been a big step for me. I've been in awe speaking with some of the people I've talked to, i.e. S. Michael Wilcox, even though he was my institute teacher once; and Virginia H. Pearce, daughter of Pres. Hinckley. Just thinking that I was talking on the phone to a daughter of a prophet was so amazing to me.
I wish I didn't come across as being a strong woman, not that there's anything wrong with being strong; I'd really like someone to take care of me, though. The more strength I show, the more I wish I didn't. I don't like being so independent, and I really don't like doing so much on my own. If it comes to the point that I need to ask someone to help with something, my first concern is he (she) will think I'm ridiculous, because I can't handle something, or that what I need isn't nearly as important as whatever they're doing. I worry that I come across as not caring about people or stand-offish, because I don't let myself get close to people. It takes me a long time to get close, but once I am, I am forever.
I've found kind of a coping mechanism for me. I'm all business, a lot of the time. I just want to let go, and socialize; well, that's what I tell myself, but then when I'm in the situation that I can just socialize, I'm hoping for some task to come up, so I'll have a purpose, or I get out my phone. It's not happening as much as it used to, but every once in a while it sneaks up. I just have to say that sometimes it's lonely when you're in charge of something.
The other night we went to Get Air in Kaysville, and jumped on trampolines, and it was so much fun! I had no concerns of needing to get to a task, I was comfortable and having a great time.
Well, I think that's all of my ramblings, for now. I wish I could always keep the perspective of everything's going to work out, and not to worry about things. I'm really good at worrying, though. I get it from Grandma Mamie!
Whatever the case, I know that the Lord has had His hand in the planning of this conference, and I hope that those that attend will feel that, and know that He knows each of them individually, and loves them. He has great faith in them, because He knows what they can do, and He wants to see them reach their potential!
Thursday, April 12, 2012
Four years ago, yesterday, I went through the Mt. Timpanogos temple for my first time. I'm so grateful that I decided to go through the temple. It has been such a blessing to me!
I had been shopping for some young women things at the distribution center, and overheard a bunch of missionaries showing each other the pictures of the temples that they received their endowments in. While I was observing this, I was like, "I want to do that." The thought had come when I was younger, I wanted to be able to be there when Collin got married, but it just didn't seem right. However, in that distribution center, I knew it was time. I went to the church that night to drop some stuff off for one of my primary kids, and just stopped into the bishop's office to see what I needed to do to get ready to go to the temple. Fifteen minutes later, I had a temple recommend and was told the next temple prep. class wasn't going to start for a while, and he thought I should just go. So, three weeks later I went through this temple. It was a great experience! It was wonderful to have so many of my family and friends there.
I've seen so many blessings in my life, and in the lives of those I know and love, because of the temple.
(I hope that Steven and Seja don't mind me posting this)
This little girl's parents found out while they were expecting her, that she had a heart defect. Their names were put on the temple prayer rolls in many temples, and one day as I was walking out of the temple, I got a text from Seja saying that they had just met with the specialist, and that she was totally fine. She's a happy, healthy wonderful little girl!
The power of the temple and the power of prayer are such amazing gifts!
Sunday, April 8, 2012
Easter
This morning we had Collin and his family over for breakfast. It was really fun! Those kids are amazing! We had yummy food, egg fights, easter baskets, and an easter egg hunt. It was great! After they left, we went to Sacrament meeting. Pres. Theurer spoke about the last week of Christ's life, it was very touching. There were some musical numbers, some were really good.
After Sacrament, we left church, so we could pick up Aunt Ann and take her to Uncle Don's and Aunt Mil's house. I'm really glad that we could help out, and get her down there, so she had some family time on Easter. It's really hard for me. Aunt Ann has dimentia, like Grandma Mamie did. They have the same eyes, so when Ann looks at me with really confused eyes, not knowing who I am, it brings back the horrible memories of Grandma's disease. Grandma generally knew who I was, but it still hurts to think about the confusion. Right as we were getting to Mil's, Ann was concerned, because she hadn't told her family where she was going, and she didn't want them to be mad at her. It was too close to home. (I have to say, that Baba (they're mom) has a lot to answer for. The terror she put inside them is so unbelievable.)
While she was visiting with them, and having dinner, Mom and I took flowers to Grandma and Grandpa, and then down to American Fork to take flowers to Daddy and Grandpa. Dad and Grandpa Dan have been gone for so long, but I still find it hard to believe that Grandpa Ross and Grandma Mamie are gone. They both went so quickly and way too close together; no one should have to go through that so close together. Walking around through the cemeteries, I thought about how many wonderful people I've lost in my life. I have friends that have never lost anyone close to them, and I've had a number of people that are close to me. It makes me even more grateful that Jesus Christ atoned for me, and that He lives again; because He lives, I'll be able to be with all of these great people again.
I sure miss these guys...(I don't have any pics of Grandpa Dan, Grandpa Gib or Grandma Orpha on my laptop, but I've sure been missing all of them today)
After Sacrament, we left church, so we could pick up Aunt Ann and take her to Uncle Don's and Aunt Mil's house. I'm really glad that we could help out, and get her down there, so she had some family time on Easter. It's really hard for me. Aunt Ann has dimentia, like Grandma Mamie did. They have the same eyes, so when Ann looks at me with really confused eyes, not knowing who I am, it brings back the horrible memories of Grandma's disease. Grandma generally knew who I was, but it still hurts to think about the confusion. Right as we were getting to Mil's, Ann was concerned, because she hadn't told her family where she was going, and she didn't want them to be mad at her. It was too close to home. (I have to say, that Baba (they're mom) has a lot to answer for. The terror she put inside them is so unbelievable.)
While she was visiting with them, and having dinner, Mom and I took flowers to Grandma and Grandpa, and then down to American Fork to take flowers to Daddy and Grandpa. Dad and Grandpa Dan have been gone for so long, but I still find it hard to believe that Grandpa Ross and Grandma Mamie are gone. They both went so quickly and way too close together; no one should have to go through that so close together. Walking around through the cemeteries, I thought about how many wonderful people I've lost in my life. I have friends that have never lost anyone close to them, and I've had a number of people that are close to me. It makes me even more grateful that Jesus Christ atoned for me, and that He lives again; because He lives, I'll be able to be with all of these great people again.
I sure miss these guys...(I don't have any pics of Grandpa Dan, Grandpa Gib or Grandma Orpha on my laptop, but I've sure been missing all of them today)
Monday, April 2, 2012
I love General Conference! It's such a great blessing to be able to listen to the words of the prophet. I know that preparing for conference with a question or questions in mind, that you will receive answers. I enjoyed every moment of this weekend, feeling the spirit so strongly!
Loved this! http://www.lds.org/general-conference/watch/2012/04?lang=eng&vid=1540737895001&cid=5
I really loved this, too! It fits so well with my upcoming midsingles conference. http://www.lds.org/general-conference/watch/2012/04?lang=eng&vid=1540737917001&cid=12
I'm grateful for the gospel in my life! I'm grateful for the Atonement of Jesus Christ, and the Plan of Happiness!
Loved this! http://www.lds.org/general-conference/watch/2012/04?lang=eng&vid=1540737895001&cid=5
I really loved this, too! It fits so well with my upcoming midsingles conference. http://www.lds.org/general-conference/watch/2012/04?lang=eng&vid=1540737917001&cid=12
I'm grateful for the gospel in my life! I'm grateful for the Atonement of Jesus Christ, and the Plan of Happiness!
Friday, February 10, 2012
Akston...
I have a new nephew! He was born on tuesday. He's darling, and was cuddly when I last saw him. He's been in NICU since wednesday morning early, so I've seen some pictures of him. He looks a lot like his biggest brother. The nurse that helped in the delivery, said she was trying to be all professional, but the second he came out, she was like, "holy cow! That's a little Collin!" Way cute! I'll post a picture later, gotta get little Ford off to school!
Really!?
So, I have two confessions: 1. I secretly want to own a bakery. 2. I secretly want to be a motivational speaker. The first one is probably not that big of a secret, since I love baking, and any chance I get, I take advantage of it. The second one, I would imagine is a secret and probably a surprise, seeing as how I don't do much talking as it is. I rarely have chances to speak, and when I do, I stress for forever about it beforehand. However, when I'm up there, and actually speaking, I find I quite enjoy it.
So, I'm not going to go on about a business plan for owning a bakery, but I am going to discuss this motivational speaker idea.
This thought came to me sometime since Grandma died, so in the last 14 months. I've observed midsingle women, and how they act, and just want to tell them how wonderful they really are, and give them a boost of self confidence. I want them to see how Heavenly Father sees them, and get past how they see themselves. I want to point out the things I see them doing, that aren't doing them any favors. Now, in my circumstances, obviously I don't have the answers, at least I don't have the answers for me. I'm not saying any of this, for people to feel sorry for me or to have people ask "what can I do to help you get married," that approach doesn't work and makes things worse. Who wants to be a midsingle? I want to be a wife and a mom more than anything in the world. It's not my timing that matters, it's the Lord's timing that matters.
I have the opportunity to be a leader of an LDS midsingles organization. Being the leader is challenging, fun and sometimes hard. For whatever reason, people think they can come to me, and I'll have all of the answers to make their dating lives better. Hello, I'm in the same circumstance, I don't have the answers, or I wouldn't be in the same circumstance. It's made me feel inadequate, that I don't have any answers or suggestions for them.
There are many situations and stories that I've been told, and I'm going to share some of them. I'm omitting any names to protect the innocent :) I hope no one is offended by me sharing their stories.
There's the let's go get a frozen yogurt, because you're not worth me spending an extra $15 and actually taking you to dinner.
So, I'm not going to go on about a business plan for owning a bakery, but I am going to discuss this motivational speaker idea.
This thought came to me sometime since Grandma died, so in the last 14 months. I've observed midsingle women, and how they act, and just want to tell them how wonderful they really are, and give them a boost of self confidence. I want them to see how Heavenly Father sees them, and get past how they see themselves. I want to point out the things I see them doing, that aren't doing them any favors. Now, in my circumstances, obviously I don't have the answers, at least I don't have the answers for me. I'm not saying any of this, for people to feel sorry for me or to have people ask "what can I do to help you get married," that approach doesn't work and makes things worse. Who wants to be a midsingle? I want to be a wife and a mom more than anything in the world. It's not my timing that matters, it's the Lord's timing that matters.
I have the opportunity to be a leader of an LDS midsingles organization. Being the leader is challenging, fun and sometimes hard. For whatever reason, people think they can come to me, and I'll have all of the answers to make their dating lives better. Hello, I'm in the same circumstance, I don't have the answers, or I wouldn't be in the same circumstance. It's made me feel inadequate, that I don't have any answers or suggestions for them.
There are many situations and stories that I've been told, and I'm going to share some of them. I'm omitting any names to protect the innocent :) I hope no one is offended by me sharing their stories.
There's the let's go get a frozen yogurt, because you're not worth me spending an extra $15 and actually taking you to dinner.
Picture Joe Jr. from While You Were Sleeping. Ick! Here is this guy that thinks he's pretty dang cool, not catching on at all that she's not interested, no matter what she says, he's still pretty certain there's something wonderful going on.
Another version of Joe Jr.: "You know Pops would knock the rent down; I could move in with you." Someone who says, "Let's go to the park first, and depending on how that goes, I might buy you dinner."
Then, there's the guy that talks your ear off for forever, and you can tell is missing a few things up stairs, and asks, "Aren't you going to ask me for my number?" Hello! If you want her to talk to you on the phone, ask for hers! Then, followed up by telling her friends, unknown to him, that she's not his type, but would be great for networking, to introduce him to her cute roommates.
Then we have this guy, "You're pretty, but I'm not gonna lie, I don't like weight on anyone... Especially me." Would you look at that guy? Of course he's funny, but really?!
Then we have the guy with the Gaston complex! Thinks he's everyone's gift, and loves going out with a different girl every night. Hello, do you have any depth to you at all?
Then we have Mr. Darcy. Mr. Darcy appears to be the cream of the crop, a little stand offish to some, but a charmer when he wants. He needs to humble himself, take the pride down a notch or two. Remember the scene where he's telling Elizabeth he loves her; he loves her against his better judgement. He just keeps rambling, digging himself into a deeper hole, wounding her pride (what little she had, in real life. Not that the midsingles' version of Mr. Darcy is professing love to anyone, he just gives excuses.)
These are just a small portion of the stories I've heard or experienced. I don't know why I've been called to lead the midsingles, I do know that this is where Heavenly Father wants me to be, and hopefully, with time, obviously not my time, I'll know why, and have a better picture. Until then, I'm just going to keep doing what I'm doing. Thanks for reading my rantings!
Friday, January 20, 2012
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Comings and goings...
It's been a long time, again! Life is so insanely crazy at times, and then on the off chance I have an evening without anything to do, I sit here going "What's up with me? I should be doing something!"
The holidays have come and gone, they went by quickly.
The mid-singles combined choir did an amazing Christmas fireside! I am so grateful to be a part of it! A friend of mine ran it, and he did an amazing job! I had no idea how big it was going to be, having it be the first one I've been a part of; but it was huge. There are so many amazingly talented people out there. The Spirit was so strong through all of the songs and the talks, it just worked out perfectly. I got to decorate the stage, and that was really fun! People were amazing at loaning me their trees, garlands and white lights. I even got a tree out of someone's (Vickie :)) front room. It was a great experience!
I've been working out really hard since September 1st. It's been a huge challenge! The first week I thought I was going to die, LITERALLY!It was the worst experience, EVER! My thoughts at the end of that week, were that if I felt anything like that on Monday, I'd be done; however, the second week got better, and I've stuck to it! I have 10 1/2 weeks left that's paid for with my trainer, and hopefully, at the end of that, I'll be able to do it on my own and maintain. The hardest part was changing from how I ate, which wasn't very much, but the wrong kinds of foods, to eating wheat and vegetables. I've always hated vegetables, other than zucchini. I'm still not a big fan, but I now eat more than zucchini- broccoli and mushrooms have become favorites!
At a fireside in October, I was sitting there, by myself, listening to the program, and had this impression that I was going to be "called" to lead this mid-singles group. I, immediately, was like, NO WAY! I so didn't want to. I feel unqualified to do it. However, it wasn't very many weeks until I was asked to lead them. I officially began leading it two weeks ago, and still feel inadequate. I'm amazed at how the way my mind has changed from being a participant, to having people's names pop into my head, and need to know how they're doing or what I can do to help them. I'm pretty reserved, so it's getting me out of my comfort zone. Sometimes, I let myself fall back into that area. Like last night, I was totally fine, and then all of a sudden I had this overwhelming feeling of not fitting into this. "Not fitting in," as in the sense of how an 8th grade girl feels, isn't what I mean. I'd rather stick out in the crowd than be like everyone else. It was just a weird experience, but that feeling doesn't happen as much as it used to, so hopefully, it won't happen anymore.
Young Women's is keeping me busy, with ward conferences, New Beginnings and an upcoming Especially by Youth (instead of EFY). We have some amazing kids that are going to teach workshops, hence the "by."
I just HAVE to say life is good and great things are happening!
The holidays have come and gone, they went by quickly.
The mid-singles combined choir did an amazing Christmas fireside! I am so grateful to be a part of it! A friend of mine ran it, and he did an amazing job! I had no idea how big it was going to be, having it be the first one I've been a part of; but it was huge. There are so many amazingly talented people out there. The Spirit was so strong through all of the songs and the talks, it just worked out perfectly. I got to decorate the stage, and that was really fun! People were amazing at loaning me their trees, garlands and white lights. I even got a tree out of someone's (Vickie :)) front room. It was a great experience!
I've been working out really hard since September 1st. It's been a huge challenge! The first week I thought I was going to die, LITERALLY!It was the worst experience, EVER! My thoughts at the end of that week, were that if I felt anything like that on Monday, I'd be done; however, the second week got better, and I've stuck to it! I have 10 1/2 weeks left that's paid for with my trainer, and hopefully, at the end of that, I'll be able to do it on my own and maintain. The hardest part was changing from how I ate, which wasn't very much, but the wrong kinds of foods, to eating wheat and vegetables. I've always hated vegetables, other than zucchini. I'm still not a big fan, but I now eat more than zucchini- broccoli and mushrooms have become favorites!
At a fireside in October, I was sitting there, by myself, listening to the program, and had this impression that I was going to be "called" to lead this mid-singles group. I, immediately, was like, NO WAY! I so didn't want to. I feel unqualified to do it. However, it wasn't very many weeks until I was asked to lead them. I officially began leading it two weeks ago, and still feel inadequate. I'm amazed at how the way my mind has changed from being a participant, to having people's names pop into my head, and need to know how they're doing or what I can do to help them. I'm pretty reserved, so it's getting me out of my comfort zone. Sometimes, I let myself fall back into that area. Like last night, I was totally fine, and then all of a sudden I had this overwhelming feeling of not fitting into this. "Not fitting in," as in the sense of how an 8th grade girl feels, isn't what I mean. I'd rather stick out in the crowd than be like everyone else. It was just a weird experience, but that feeling doesn't happen as much as it used to, so hopefully, it won't happen anymore.
Young Women's is keeping me busy, with ward conferences, New Beginnings and an upcoming Especially by Youth (instead of EFY). We have some amazing kids that are going to teach workshops, hence the "by."
I just HAVE to say life is good and great things are happening!
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