Remember my dating post from last February?  Read here.  There are men out there that totally surprise me with how unaware, mean, rude, etc. they can be.  However, I'm not going to talke about that tonight.  I'm going to talk about the crazy women out there!

The other night I was at Cheesecake Factory after a midsingles temple night.  I happened to end up sitting in a booth with a group of men.  Fun for me :)  One guy had all of these abilities and experiences, and one of the other guys asked him why he wasn't married.  I thought it was kind of a funny conversation, because I've only had that sort of conversation with women.  So, guy A, with the experiences said he's ready to be married, but it's just not happening yet.  He said that he has moments when he thinks I could totally marry this girl, but he waits 6 months, and by that time the girl stops her fake behavior and then she's not what he wants, or she lies about her beliefs/standards, even to talking about how great her ward is, just to fine out that she's not a member of the church after dating for a while.  Listening to this, I just thought, OH.MY.GOSH!  I can't stand women like that!  These stupid women are out there ruining things for all these other great women!  I'm grateful that I'm not one of those women.  I'm the same person whether I'm dating someone or being in front of people or being by myself. 

Then there is the girl that is the total charmer.  She loves to have a following, she loves to have a following of men and women.  She's a great communicator, makes you feel like you are so important.  She goes out with lots of men, and sucks them right in.  She then opens up to them, some, and they open up a ton!  They tell her all of their past things, good or bad, and then she takes what they say, and use that information to warn other women.  So not a good situation!  Once again, the men are being chased away from decent women, because the men are wary about opening up, again; and don't want to be around women that that one woman may have been around.

Then there are all of the girls that are negative and put down EVERY guy they run into.  Really?!  I have to say that people are going to act the way they're being treated.  If you treat them like they're dumb, they're going to act like it with you. 

People deserve to be treated wonderfully!  Men, women, everyone needs to be treated with respect!  Be honest.  Be careful.  Be someone that someone can trust! 

Watch or read this.  It's a great message!