Articles and stuff...

Interesting read on dating right here.  The lady that wrote this article came and did a Monday night devotional for the midsingles about a year ago.  I think I wrote about it then.  There were some points that were really good, but there were things that were just plain obnoxious.  It was so fake! People were rehearsing on each other in the social afterwards, and it was hilarious to observe!  There were some fun things every once in a while that she gave of "he has interest in you if he does..." and vice versa.  It was funny to see some of those very things happening, even with one guy that had come in afterwards.  It was funny!

It's funny, because I'm not one of those that follow her, or her website, but every once in a while there's an article that speaks to me or affects me in some way.  Like this one, for example, was sent to me once by a guy.  He searched it out one night after we had had a less than wonderful conversation, and posted it on his facebook page.  I thought the timing was funny, but he couldn't have possibly posted it in any relationship to our conversation.  Well, a few minutes later he sent it to my inbox.  It fit him to the T, and I could see myself in the girl in the article.   It was interesting.  Oh, and here's  the article for the women that are in these kinds of relationships.

Now back to the original article up there.  The "I'm anxious..." feeling fits me to the T, at least in my last relationship. Since that relationship, I've been confused about what I was feeling, if I was reading my feelings correctly, not that it matters anymore, but I was second guessing a lot of it.  So, when I saw this title on facebook, I wanted to read it to see if any of my questions could be answered.  Let's say upfront, I was the initial ender to the past relationship, but it sort of drug on and on until it dwindled.  Anyways,  I really liked the scriptural references in this article!

All of these experiences, whether they're happy or hurtful, are all teaching me many things!  I'm grateful for the lessons.  I know that we have to feel pain and agony in order to understand and feel the greatness and glory!  Wouldn't life be so boring if everything was the same?!